For every professional we see today, there was once a time when they were a child and as it is common knowledge, parents are one of the biggest influences in any child’s life. Thus, it is pertinent to say that the parents of a nation have a big duty in shaping the future of the nation, into successful health care workers, engineers, entertainers, artists, and any other essential or non-essential profession people choose to pick up.
However, this is much easier said than done. Many parents are often clueless about what career path is the best for their child and are thus unable to offer attention to pursuing that option from the beginning. The education system does not make the process easier, as instead of allowing for individual thinking patterns and resource building, the curriculum provided takes on a more rounded approach to every subject, making allowances only for a choice between science, commerce, or arts. Instead, individual tools such as a school management system, or an LMS portal can come in handy.
Parents must hence do as much as possible in their power to provide the best opportunities for their child, not only to develop into a good human being but also a successful professional. Read on to know the dos and don’ts to pursue the above.
DOs:
Set realistic expectations-
Often it is seen that parents push their children to take up career choices that they are not academically suited for, or would not like to pursue for personal reasons. However, refusal to comply can end in detrimental actions against the child. This is a wrong method, as it devalues the child’s value as a student and does not allow them to express themselves freely. Instead, parents can get a quick view into what career options are open for their children by glancing through the school management system which often stores data that tracks fluctuations in performance and offers suggestions for future areas of study.
Express values you want to see reciprocated-
Considering a child spends a majority of their time around their parents, the latter’s behavior, not only towards their child but also towards academics and life in general, can set patterns for future behavioral tendencies expressed in the child. This is why it is important to express behavior that you would want to see in your children. It is necessary to set an example of kindness towards others as well as oneself, as well as other important characteristics such as showing an interest in reading and other academic accomplishments. Parents may also communicate with their child’s teachers using an LMS portal to check if such values are being brought into fruition.
Keep yourself updated-
The world of higher education is constantly evolving and along with it, we can notice a transformation in the career opportunities that are presented. Gone are the days when the only two options to be considered successful were to be a doctor or an engineer- with a rise in non-traditional job markets, it is easier for students to practice subject matter they enjoy and want to learn more about, rather than resigning themselves to the same old. However, many children are unable to use the internet and any other available resources to discuss these matters to the fullest, thus leaving behind gaps in their perception. As an adult with many more years of experience, parents must keep themselves updated about any new career paths as well as what qualifications to have for it.
DONTs:
Focus on money as an incentive-
Many professionals report being attracted to the pay rate offered by occupation, rather than finding what suits them best. Parents must keep a keen eye on their children and help them choose a career path that can give long-term satisfaction rather than hitting short-term goals.
Pile distractions during learning hours-
Parents must maintain a certain level of peace so that children can revise their study matters at home. Organizing avoidable events and other distractions during those few hours is an absolute no-go. If they choose to take up a part-time job, it is important to make sure that a proper work-life balance is being maintained.
